Archive for October, 2009

Have you ever think about rationalizations and why they are effective. I think that our rationalizations work because we use them in moment when we desperately need something to believe to. When you think about your rationalization later, most of the time you know how your rationalization is stupid. It’s almost like when you think... »

I enjoy browsing Internet and finding useful free resources. However, I’m rarely almost never read them. This is shame. Some day before I find one very useful book. On this link you can find this and other book. This book is about creating habit. I read many articles and post about creating habit and all... »

I’m unemployed almost half year now and life is good. Except for some mysterious reason when I go to sleep. When I lay in a dark in bed I have some funny feeling that something is strange, night by night by night, something is strange. I have full happy meaningful day, working on one interesting... »

Today I was cleaning backyard. I was sweeping leaves and various other plants part after strong wind yesterday. I did not remove every leaf because happiness is process, not a single goal and can be achieved even with imperfection, I end when I  feel like it to end even task is not done, there is always... »

Read any self development blog (including mine before this blog) and there are great chances that you will find article about planing. Almost all are written as you never create any plan before, and yet you make plans all the time: When your spouse tell you: “Honey my parents will tomorrow came to dinner.” You... »

Happiness is balance sheet. It has sad part (costs) and happy part (income). Many people act as some heavenly accountant do calculation for them and then said them you are happy now or you are said now. Forget about that. You are CEO of one member corporation. As any CEO you can when numbers go... »

When your read about procrastination in self development blogs they all have the same thought about procrastination: “Procrastination is bad for productivity.” You can also said: “Skin cancer is bad for beauty.” It intuitively sound true, it is scientific true, but it’s not most important point, because you can die. Most important point about procrastination is... »