Be real, your not center of the world
And your biggest problem is not center of your life
Few week ago on our television was one interesting episode of “Dr. House” where House diagnose problems with guy who has problem with agoraphobia and can’t go in hospital because panic attack.
At end of episode guy was even get a bonus in his first brave attempt to get outside the house.
Does any spectacular happen because of that? Nothing. No one go to our guy said it to him. Oh you so brave and you conquer your fear, OK it’s night, but you now what I mean. 
Our greatest and mortal flaw are mainly our problem.
If you are shy you think that people look for your actions, but they don’t. When shy person think that all look at him/her almost never it’s true because they are much more interesting thing lo look and do then some frozen person in corner of the room.
So get real. Your problem (whatever they are) are not center of the world. Take a deep breath and solve them without to much thinking about other people.
And when you solve it, don’t expect to world be turned about you and celebrate.
Look Gridlock’d movie to get idea what you can expect. 