Happiness
Dream killer thought
Yesterday when I was going to sleep I was thinking. Oh, no I can’t even think about exercises. Than I suddenly realize. This thought is productivity, happiness and dream killer at he same time, whenever you think something like this thought you surrender yourself and quit from something. So naturally my next thought was:... »
Good enough syndrome
I have good enough syndrome. As soon as achieve something, my good enough switch is activated and I am moderate happy but completely unproductive. This has two major disadvantages: My productivity is not as good as I want it, My happiness is always moderate because if I stop on good enough I’m prevented to enjoy... »
Micromeditation
As you can expect this is very simple but powerful. In random moments of day slow and deep inhale through nose and smell air, then slow and deep exhale through mouth and make thought: “I have a great life”. That’s it. Because such a slow conscious inhale with smelling air activity will make you feel good... »
Project Whuuuush
Few days ago I have really big problem. I already work some time on one big project with few of guys that will give me chance to live as freelancer. And I was stuck. Documentation is bad, examples not what I need and it was a few day of frustration in a row. During that... »
How to bust rationalizations
Have you ever think about rationalizations and why they are effective. I think that our rationalizations work because we use them in moment when we desperately need something to believe to. When you think about your rationalization later, most of the time you know how your rationalization is stupid. It’s almost like when you think... »
Why I hated going sleep and how I get rid of that
I’m unemployed almost half year now and life is good. Except for some mysterious reason when I go to sleep. When I lay in a dark in bed I have some funny feeling that something is strange, night by night by night, something is strange. I have full happy meaningful day, working on one interesting... »
Simple pleasure of doing right thing, in right way
Today I was cleaning backyard. I was sweeping leaves and various other plants part after strong wind yesterday. I did not remove every leaf because happiness is process, not a single goal and can be achieved even with imperfection, I end when I feel like it to end even task is not done, there is always... »
Happiness for accountant (and all others)
Happiness is balance sheet. It has sad part (costs) and happy part (income). Many people act as some heavenly accountant do calculation for them and then said them you are happy now or you are said now. Forget about that. You are CEO of one member corporation. As any CEO you can when numbers go... »
Procrastination: Bad choice or Sad choice?
When your read about procrastination in self development blogs they all have the same thought about procrastination: “Procrastination is bad for productivity.” You can also said: “Skin cancer is bad for beauty.” It intuitively sound true, it is scientific true, but it’s not most important point, because you can die. Most important point about procrastination is... »
Why you postpone happiness?
About quarter to seven I think: "OK I will clean my room and be on computer before seven." Then I was thinking how this thought is stupid because it imply I will be happy if this happen. OH really, you will be happy Dalibor only if you will be on computer before seven? Seven... »